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Understand the two keys to life as a happy student are
setting goals and finding a balance that works.
- Goals
are things you want to achieve. Your goals will depend on your values
and needs as a student. Goals can be anything. One major goal all
students have is to graduate. Many
students also have a goal of finding new friends. Some students may have
budgetary goals. It doesn't matter what your goals are, all that
matters is that you know what they are.
- Make a list of your goals: the things you want to accomplish as a
student.
- Use brainstorming
techniques like mind maps and freewriting
to find your own goals. Sometimes knowing yourself is the hardest
thing, so try working on your goals with friends.
- Prioritize your list of goals.
- Your goals will be a dynamic list, you will be adding and deleting
from this list your entire life as you and your priorities change. In
college you are likely to change you values and priorities a great deal,
so don't be nervous about editing your list of goals.
- Find balance. Balance is how you are going to manage
your time in order to accomplish all your goals. It is vital to find the right
balance between your competing priorities, which will be
different for every individual student. For example:
- A single mother returning to school will need to find balance
between her studying and her child care.
- A student who works and attends school full time will need to find
balance between work and studying.
- Other students will need to find balance between sports, studying
and socializing.
- With balance in mind, prioritize your list of goals again.
- Remember, you may not have time to do everything, and will have to
make some hard choices.
- Remember that as a college student nobody is checking on you any
more. You are an independent individual. Nobody cares if
you miss class, don't do your homework, don't eat properly, or don't go
to a party. It is up to you, now, to set these goals and keep them.
2
Determine where you will live. One of the most important
choices faced by all college students is where to live. Most four-year
colleges in the USA offer dorms to students, and some even require you
to live in a dorm for the first year or two. You can also choose
off-campus housing. Your decision will depend on your goals and balance
choices.
- Living in a dorm can be a great experience but is not for everybody.
Dorms are typically crowded, noisy, with many individuals competing for
time and space. A lot of dorm time is spent socializing, so if you are
more of a serious student, perhaps easily distracted, dorm life may not
be for you.
- If your goal is to study but you also wish to live in a dorm look
around campus for private study spots you can go to when needed. These
may include the library, art centers, computer labs, under a tree or any other place you feel comfortable.
- Understand that most modern colleges offer a variety of dorm
experiences on the same campus. For example, your college may have a
"zoo" dorm where anything goes, along with quieter dorms where people
like to study, and even "alternative" dorms that offer kitchens and
on-campus apartments. It is often difficult to know which dorm has which
style on your tour day, so check out the dorm options after you have
been in school for a while, and be prepared to move.
- Live off campus. For returning students in particular, and those
ready for more responsibility, living off campus can provide many
benefits, but also has disadvantages.
- Advantages of living off campus can include:
- Depending on your location, living in an apartment can be cheaper than paying housing
fees.
- Living off campus gives you privacy and independence.
- Food and other costs can be cheaper, especially if you develop good
budgetary habits.
- Many would argue that living off campus gives an individual wider
cultural exposure, access to a homogenized community, and a richer
college experience.
- This will work better with more outgoing college students. Shyer
ones benefit in a dorm.
- The disadvantages of living off campus include:
- Higher costs in rent, groceries and utilities, depending on area.
- More work and responsibility maintaining an apartment.
- A commute.
- Feelings of isolation, depression or loneliness.
- Live Greek. You may also choose housing with certain clubs and
organizations. The Greek lifestyle often provides an alternative housing
to both dorms and off campus living.
- Visit your campus housing office who can give you more information
about all these topics.
3
Living with a budget. For many students managing money is a major new challenge. A budget does
not mean you are poor, it simply means spending what you have on what
you need. That said, many students are on limited budgets. Some
techniques for learning to manage your money include:
- Learn to live cheaply. You can buy hip clothing in thrift stores, buy
groceries using coupons or shop in cheaper neighborhood markets, put
collections on hold and do many other many things to reduce your cost of
living.
- Learn to cook.
By cooking your own foods it is possible to eat sensible, delicious
food, but spend very little money.
- Use dollar stores for things like toothpaste and toilet paper.
- Apply for financial aid. Step one in receiving student loans and
grants is filling out the FAFSA: Free Application for Student Aid. (Link
below)
- Get a part-time job to supplement your income.
4
Transportation. Transportation is also an important
choice for most college students. Your transportation options are
principally determined by your needs, budget, lifestyle, available
facilities, location and possibly political beliefs.
- Cars. A car on
campus gives you the freedom to get away when needed, but can also be
expensive to park, use and maintain. Most college campuses are fairly
self-contained so a car may be more hassle than it is
worth.
- Many colleges offer sophisticated transportation services including
shuttles, free buses, night escorts and other systems. Learning to use
these facilities can be both fun and rewarding.
- A bicycle may be your best option for transportation at
college. Bicycle theft is a serious problem at most colleges so be sure
to have a good lock.
- Scooters and motorcycles can also work well, especially if you live
off campus. They are far cheaper to operate than a car.
5
Getting involved. Almost all colleges in the USA offer
far more activities than you could possibly explore in just four years.
For many, college activities are only part of a rich student life. Some
of the things you can do include:
- Get involved in sports.
- Join clubs, associations and organizations. Whatever you are
interested in there will be a club for it at your college, and if there
isn't, start one!
- Many colleges offer training outside of the typical academic
environment. For example some college offer after hours training in
things like "leadership skills".
- Take or just sit in on classes you find interesting, or that can
teach you valuable skills, like typing.
- Become involved in campus politics.
- Explore your local community. Many colleges are located in wonderful
areas. Exploring some of the countryside and surrounding areas can add
precious memories to your college experience.
- Volunteer for your favorite charities or other organizations.
6
Health. Getting sick on your own is part and parcel to
living like a college student. Fortunately most colleges have both
health insurance plans, and on-campus health facilities.
- Stress is the most common new ailment faced by college students.
Living on your own, new pressures and the immense workload involved in
college can create stress you may not have encountered before.
- Stress can have serious effects. Stress can lower your immune system
and alter your personality. Learning to recognize your own internal
stress is the first step in dealing with the issue. While we are all
under stress all the time, stress that effects your life can be
indicated by some of the following symptoms:
- Memory problems.
- Difficulty making decisions.
- Inability to concentrate.
- Confusion.
- Seeing only the negative.
- Repetitive or racing thoughts.
- Poor judgment.
- Loss of objectivity.
- Desire to escape or run away.
- Moody and hypersensitive.
- Restlessness and anxiety.
- Depression.
- Anger and resentment.
- Easily irritated and “on edge”.
- Sense of being overwhelmed.
- Lack of confidence.
- Apathy.
- Urge to laugh or cry at inappropriate times.
- Taking good care of your health is the best way to insure a good
college experience no matter what kind of student you are.
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